Showing posts with label Fruit of Spirit - Selfcontrol. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Fruit of Spirit - Selfcontrol. Show all posts

Overcoming Temptation

 
I heard the story of a guy who was quite overweight and wanted to shed some pounds. Knowing his hankering for doughnuts, he carefully avoided driving past the Krispy Kreme doughnut shop on his way to work every day. He did this successfully for three weeks, and all his coworkers were really proud of him. Then one day he came to work with five boxes of hot Krispy Kremes – three of them already consumed.

Everyone started getting on his case for falling off the wagon. He smiled and said, "Wait, these are special doughnuts! I accidentally drove by Krispy Kreme in the morning, and I could see the sign was lit up telling me the doughnuts were being made fresh.

"So I prayed, 'Lord, if You want me to have some of these incredible donuts, let me have a parking space right in front of the store!' And sure enough, the eighth time around the block, there it was!"

That reminds me of a bumper sticker:

"Lead me not into temptation. I can find it myself."

We all know what it's like to be tempted to do the wrong thing. Like Oscar Wilde said, "I can resist anything – except temptation."

But the Bible promises us that we can overcome the lure and seduction of various kinds of temptation:

No temptation has overtaken you except such as is common to man; but God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will also make the way of escape, that you may be able to bear it. (1 Corinthians 10:13) Now, this is not to say you cannot put yourself in a place of temptation – a place where you don't belong.

Jesus taught us to pray, "And do not lead us into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one." We cannot completely remove ourselves from temptation. To do that, we'd have to leave the planet. In this petition, we are asking God to so guide our steps that we will not wander out of His will and place ourselves in the way of temptation. We're saying, "Lord, don't let me be tempted above my capacity to resist."

But then there is also the devil, Satan, who directs a well-organized, highly effective army of fallen angels (demons) to lure you into bondage to sin.

The purpose of demons seems to be twofold. They seek to hinder the purposes of God, and they seek to extend the power of Satan. We see this illustrated in Scripture. Consider this snippet from Paul's letter to the church in Thessalonica: "For we wanted to come to you – certainly I, Paul, did, again and again – but Satan stopped us" (1 Thessalonians 2:18).

The Apostle Paul mentioned his own personal struggles that were brought on by demons, and even allowed by God. In his second letter to the Corinthians, he speaks of a "thorn in the flesh" and calls it "a messenger of Satan" to buffet him (2 Corinthians 12:7-9).

The word "buffet" in this passage means to "strike with the fist." Though it's true we as believers can be hassled like Paul was, and tempted and oppressed and harassed by Satan, the devil cannot control us! The apostle said, "We get knocked down, but we get up again and keep going" (2 Corinthians 4:9).

That's because when we put our faith in Jesus Christ we come under "new ownership!"

However, let me extend this word of warning: If you have not put your faith in Jesus Christ as Savior and Lord, you are entirely vulnerable to the devil and his attacks.

Silver bullets, holy water or crucifixes will not stop him.

Only the power of Jesus Christ.

Someone may ask, "Greg, are you saying that you actually believe in demon possession?" Absolutely!

Now, I am not speaking of the "Hollywood/Exorcist" style of demon control here with spinning heads, etc. In the New Testament, we see people who were possessed by demons having many illnesses as well as suicidal tendencies.

There was one man who was possessed by not one but many, many demons. He hung around in a graveyard, naked, cutting himself with sharp rocks. The Amplified Bible says of this man, "Night and day among the tombs and on the mountains he was always shrieking and screaming and beating and bruising and cutting himself with stones" (Mark 5:5). He had super-human strength and was able to break chains with his bare hands. No doubt the people of the area avoided this place – especially at night.

Nobody, that is, except Jesus, who delivered this tortured man, releasing him from an army of evil spirits in the space of a heartbeat.

But how does this sort of thing happen? By opening the door of your soul to Satan.

Note the man was suicidal. When I look at the rash of suicides in our country today, especially among young people, I have to say Satan is at work. Suicides among adolescents have nearly tripled over the last 40 years. For those age 15 to 24, suicide is the third-leading cause of death, behind accidents and homicide.

The devil whispers in your ear, "You are worthless – take your life!"

Remember, his ultimate agenda is to "steal, to kill and to destroy."

But we can be encouraged to understand that when Christ comes in, the devil goes out. And that's why it's wrong when we hear people saying Christians can be "demon-possessed." Believers might allow themselves to be hassled, harassed or oppressed by demons, but those evil angels cannot enter a space occupied by the living Christ! God is not interested in a time-share program with the devil.

If you are a true Christian, God has given you exceedingly precious promises that you can stake your life upon. God will help you overcome temptations of various kinds, and He has given you spiritual armor to wage war against Satan and his legions. Even better, since Jesus has overcome Satan and all his power, He is our Defender and invincible Advocate. As one of God's children, every move of the enemy against you must come by permission through the protective hedge of Jesus.

So pray, "Lord, lead me not into temptation, but deliver me from evil."

I suggest you flee temptation and not leave a forwarding address!

HARVEST MINISTRIES by Pastor Greg Laurie © 2007. All rights reserved. (Please include this line to forward the message).

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Run To Win

 
Paul writes, "Run in such a way that you may win." The Isthmian Games to which Paul referred were open to everyone. Obviously the object of running any race is to win! But it's not just a matter of putting on your Nike's, wearing the outfit and enjoying the scenery: "Run in such a way that you may win."

So, what's the secret to winning? "Everyone who competes in the games exercises self-control in all things" (1 Co 9:25 NAS). Athletes who run to win, exercise restraint over their impulses, emotions and desires. They watch their diet, get sufficient sleep and train their bodies in just the right way. They're not doing things that could limit their performance on the track. They measure the consequences of every indulgence according to whether it will help or hinder them. Paul says that those who ran in the Isthmian Games did so to win "a perishable wreath." Actually, the victors were treated like royalty. Often their debts were cancelled and they were allowed to live tax free for the rest of their lives. In some cases they were given a lifetime supply of food so that they could rest on their laurels.

So Paul points out that, as valuable as that leafy crown was, it can't compare to the eternal rewards for which we strive. In other words, run with eternity in view. Obedience to God, even in details, enhances your Heavenly reward. At the end of a life of deep commitment and detailed obedience, Paul could say, "There is laid up for me a crown." So, live each moment with that crown in view!

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I Don't Want to Grow Up!


I remember the first time I saw the movie, "Peter Pan". I was a little girl, totally mesmerized by the character of Peter and wanted to be just like him.  After the movie was over, I immediately ran into my back yard and jumped out of a tree – trying to fly!  Fortunately, nothing was broken and I quickly decided I could be contented with being like Peter in other ways.  So I vowed to never grow up!  I agreed with him that the adult world seemed frightening; it was very large and demanding, completely beyond my control.

But life goes on and I somehow managed to navigate the treacherous waters of life, finding myself happily married with two children. Once again, I wish time would stop or at least slow down so my children would stay babies.  Of course, that wish didn't come true either.  Today, Jered is finishing college and Danna is starting.  They are wonderful young adults who bring us great joy and teach us so much about life.  The desire to grow is a healthy desire and a natural process in human development.

The same principle is true when it comes to our spiritual development and growth.  If the desire to grow isn't present in our lives, there's something wrong with our spiritual health.  Healthy Christians grow and mature.  It's natural for the Christian to grow and mature in Christ.  God not only wants us to grow, He commands it!

The Apostle Paul wrote a letter to the church at Corinth, correcting them for their childish attitudes about the spiritual gifts of tongues, knowledge and prophecy.  He encouraged them to grow up, to put away these less mature gifts and to seek the more mature gifts such as love, faith and hope.

We can apply this same encouragement to our lives today.  It's time for us to become mature believers by putting away immature attitudes and actions.  One of the most obvious marks of maturity or immaturity is how we use words.  Mature believers don't speak like children. You never know exactly what a child is going to say but we naturally expect childish words to come from children.  Paul is saying that a great measurement of maturity for us as Christians is how well we use words.

Our words need to be controlled. 
In the book of James we find a sobering challenge.  "We all make many mistakes, but those who control their tongues can also control themselves in every other way." James 3:2 (NLT) If we can control our tongues we can control ourselves. James, a disciple of Jesus, compares the tongue to the rudder on a ship, a bit in the horse's mouth or a spark that starts a huge fire.  The tongue is powerful and difficult to control.  Our words can give or destroy life.  Once a word is spoken, it is eternal.

Our words need to be encouraging. 
One of the highest responsibilities in the body of Christ is to practice encouragement.  A word of encouragement may be a life preserver to someone drowning in a storm of life.

Our words need to be truthful. 
Mark Twain said, "A lie can travel half way around the world while the truth is putting on its shoes." Lies hold us in bondage while truth sets us free.

We need to be extremely careful what we say and how we say it because the spoken word is powerful.  It can bless or curse, express praise or whisper slander.  It can be a tool of blessing or a weapon of destruction.  How we use the tongue is a dead give-away of our spiritual maturity.  If we don't learn to control our tongue, it will control us!  It's time to grow up!
Prayer,
Father, I confess that in many ways I am still so childish and lack maturity.   I now lay those areas before you and ask that you take control, teaching me your ways. Lord, help me control my tongue and speak words that would encourage and build others up.  Right now, I give myself anew to you and pray that in the days to come, I will grow up so that others will see you in my life.  Amen.
GIRLFRIENDS IN GOD by Mary Southerland © 2006. All rights reserved. (Please include this line to forward the message).
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Choose Your "cause"

Some people attempt to come into the Christian life at the level of self-control rather than at the level of love, and quickly discover that it does not work.

I tried to come into Christianity this way. There was a time in my teens when I was greatly attracted to Christianity, but not willing to make the full surrender which it so clearly demands. Every day I would start out with the thought and purpose that I would do everything in my power to keep myself from sin -- and every night I fell into bed feeling a failure.

How could a diseased will heal a diseased soul?

Then I surrendered my life to Christ and something wonderful happened -- His love flowed into my heart and as I began to love Him, all lesser loves soon dropped away.

A university professor, writing on the subject of loyalty, says an interesting thing: "There is only one way to be an ethical individual and that is to choose your cause and then to serve it. This central loyalty to a cause puts other loyalties in their place as subordinate. Then life as a whole is coordinated because all lesser loyalties are subordinated.

"Translate his thinking into New Testament language and you find an interesting similarity. The "cause" we choose is Christ and His Kingdom, and when we seek them first, then all other things, including self-control, are added to us. This does not mean, of course, that once we become Christians we automatically become people of supreme self-control. We have the potential for that, but it becomes a reality only as we continually surrender and submit to Christ's control.
Prayer,
O Father, I am so thankful that when I threw my will on Your side, You threw Your will on my side. I am controlled because I am under control. Amen.
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Control Your Emotions

refrain from anger and turn from wrath; do not fret - it leads only to evil. (Psalm 37:8 NIV)
Mike Singleterry, who played for the Chicago Bears football team, was a star player - and a Christian. One day, however, they were losing, and the hometown fans became ugly and threw insults at him. He didn't like it. The TV cameras trained on Singleterry's face as he glowered at the crowd. Suddenly he lost his temper and started toward the stands, shouting back. It wasn't his finest hour. But after the game may have been one of Mike's finest hours. That's when he met with the press and apologized. No excuses, no blaming: just an apology. His emotions had gotten out of control and he took responsibility. Perhaps Singleterry had read these words: "A man's wisdom gives him patience; it is to his glory to overlook an offense" (Pr 19:11 NIV).
As you go through life people will offend you. Sometimes it will be deliberate, other times it will be inadvertent. The question is - what are you going to do about it?

Spiritually mature people discipline their emotions and make sure they accurately reflect reality. They can be sad, joyful, angry or elated in appropriate ways at appropriate times. They refuse to allow their emotions to determine their conduct, attitude, or choices. One Christian author writes: "When I feel things going against me, when feelings of anger and resentment begin to rise, it's time to stop and ask what's happening. Is this for the greater good, or not? Is God speaking to me, or isn't He? Will my flesh rule this moment, or my Spirit?" That's good advice for you too!
Bible Readings: 2 Cor 9:1 - 11:15, Mark 14:66-72, Ps 52, Pr 21:17

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